Boys must have been rejected in the process of chasing girls, especially if you want to ask a girl out to play, plan the route there by yourself, and imagine improving the relationship with the girl. Unexpectedly, the girl The child pushed immediately and was rejected before he even started. Of course he was very sad. So how do you ask a girl out to play so that she can't refuse?
In fact, if you want to successfully ask a girl out, first of all, the girl must not hate you, secondly, the girl likes your invitation method, and finally, the girl must have time to go out with you. The following is Let’s talk about the three necessary conditions for successfully asking a girl out to play:
1. The girl is interested in you
There is no hesitation about this, after all, the cost of dating a girl Very high, it takes her an hour or two to shower, put on makeup, and pick out clothes. When a girl isn't interested in you, it's hard to ask her out, no matter how skilled you are. So, before asking a girl out, you should establish attraction first. When a girl is only slightly interested in you, seize the window in time and make an invitation to the girl, and she will be willing to go out with you.
2. Girls are interested in the date location
Many boys ask girls out either for dinner or After watching movies for a long time, girls will no longer go out with you; there are also girls with many suitors. They always face several invitations to "come out to eat or watch movies" a day. You think they will Not annoying?
So, when you date a girl, think about it in her shoes: If I were a girl, would I be interested in this date place? Is it worth taking a shower and putting on makeup?
3. Clear obstacles
Will girls refuse you with such excuses when you invite them? : "It's too late, leave it until next time" "That place is too far away from me"... Some of these excuses are girls' excuses to reject you; another part is that girls really have these problems . These are what I usually call obstacles.
When a girl refuses an invitation with excuses, then as a boy, you have an obligation to clear the obstacles for the girl to go on the date. For example, when a girl feels that the date is too late, you should adjust the time; when a girl feels that it is too far away, you should drive to pick her up. If you don't have a car, you can at least take a taxi to pick her up.
If a girl is interested in you, she also likes the project you invite, and it is convenient for her to go there and she has time. If she is dating you, then what reason does she have for not dating you? It’s easy to figure out how to ask a girl out to play so that she can’t refuse.
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