In fact, girls and we have never known each other. Maybe you have been chatting with a girl online for a long time, and you both feel that you can talk to each other, so you will consider meeting in person. But if you haven’t been chatting for too long, the girl may refuse to meet because she doesn’t trust you. Next, let’s talk about how long is the appropriate time to chat with a girl you don’t know on WeChat?
1. Based on the girl’s personality
In fact, there is no clear time limit for how long it takes for a girl to chat on WeChat and meet. It mainly depends on the girl’s personality. For example, if a girl has a carefree personality, you can chat and ask if you would like to have a BBQ date to sing a song or something. As long as it is something that the girl is interested in, extroverted girls will usually agree. And if the girl is the kind of person who has a reserved personality, you may need to chat with her for a long time. After she gets to know you enough and feels a little familiar and friendly, it will be natural for you to ask her to meet. .
2. See if a girl is interested in you
Whether the girl you are chatting with is extroverted or For introverts, no matter how long you chat, it has nothing to do with whether or not you are suitable to meet. It depends on how well the girl chats with you and whether the girl is interested in getting to know you more deeply. If not, then no matter how long you chat with a girl, you may not be able to date her. If you can ask a girl out, it means that the girl wants to have a follow-up relationship with you. If you just feel that it is too abrupt to meet up too early, then you can check the conversation on WeChat first after chatting for about one to two weeks. , it’s like asking, “I found a so-and-so restaurant that tastes really good. I’ll take you to eat there one day. What do you think?” If she says it’s okay, then she probably doesn’t object to meeting you, and then you can I'm starting to think about setting up an appointment for an interview.
3. Look at your chat situation
In fact, how long it takes to chat with a girl on WeChat and meet in person should not be the key point. The focus should be on the content of your chat with the girl. Through chatting, do you really want to meet this person? Some people may feel like they want to meet each other after chatting once, while others may have no desire to meet after chatting for a month. So think about the content of your conversation. Does it make you want to meet, or does the girl just treat you as a tree hole to talk about in life, nothing more.
Of course, maybe you and a girl get good feedback when chatting on WeChat, but after meeting you are very reserved in chatting and getting along. It is undeniable that chatting can help each other understand each other, but chatting is too easy to take things out of context. Meeting may make you disappointed, or you may feel that you are far from the girl in your mind after chatting. Therefore, sometimes meeting really is very important, if you canIf so, it is better to meet as early as possible so that both parties can plan in advance.
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