In the world of love, there are not only unrequited love, explicit love, and secret love, but also two-way secret love (mutual secret love) - a man and a woman clearly love each other but do not express it. Even if they are aware of each other's feelings, they will not express their feelings. Love relationships will be further unlocked.
It is obvious that two people are very yearning for love, so why do men and women who are so eager for love not confess their feelings when they have a crush on each other?
1. Fear of the unknown
Because people who have a crush on each other never express their feelings accurately, they are always not sure about their love for each other, and are afraid that they will lose love as soon as they express their feelings. I have no choice but to be friends; I am afraid that all this is just my wishful thinking; I am afraid that the two people will not be able to get together in the end...
People who lack courage are always full of fear of the future, even if the future is mutual. The person who has a crush has always longed for the love, but has always been hesitant.
People who have a crush on each other need more courage to seize their own love. Love falling from the sky is rare. More often, love needs to be pursued by ourselves.
2. Inferiority towards reality
In the face of love, devout believers always regard themselves as having nothing. , always see each other as perfect.
This stark contrast makes it easy for people to feel inferior in the face of love - ugly, bad personality, poor family conditions, incompetence...
Therefore, when people who have a crush on each other face the person they like, they may be afraid of not being able to give them happiness, which will naturally lead to an inferiority complex of liking but fearing harm.
Because I have a crush on someone and fall in love with someone, I want to give her the best. However, the powerlessness in reality can only increase the inferiority complex deep inside, causing people who have a crush on each other to dare not confess.
3. Obsession with secret love
Secret love is definitely an addictive thing. It will fill you with infinite reveries, and even if you can't express your feelings, you can still feel happiness in your secret love.
People who have a crush on each other but do not confess it are more or less related to this, because secret love is the safest pleasure.
Once the love is expressed, the pleasure brought by the secret love may be threatened, because in the mutual secret love, each other is already satisfied with the fun, but does not want to break this delicate balance.
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