The concept that relationships need to be "well-matched" seems to have been deeply rooted in the hearts of the people, so many boys will be intimidated and dare not pursue a girl with better family conditions than their own. In fact, this is completely unnecessary. If you really like it, just go for it. So how should you pursue a girl whose family situation is better than yours?
Many people judge and analyze their own value inaccurately. Yes, many boys only see their disadvantages but not their advantages.
And use your own disadvantages to compare with the advantages of others.
For example, comparing having no house, car, or savings with a girl’s beautiful figure!
If you compare your own disadvantages with other people’s advantages, you will definitely not be able to compare with them, so the more you Comparison makes you feel inferior!
There is no need to put the other person in an unattainable position!
A person The most valuable thing is not the so-called house, car, or the so-called good looks and figure, but the height of cognition!
Don’t be disgusted when facing people who are lower than you, and don’t feel inferior when facing people who are higher than you. , don’t kneel and lick, don’t grovel.
Evaluate your own strength rationally. I don’t have a house or a car and my conditions are not good, but I have a fighting heart and a sense of responsibility.
Therefore, if you want to catch up with a girl whose family conditions are better than your own, you must first let the girl see your advantages, such as being able to take care of others, and being unconditionally good to her; for example, having Motivated and well-dressed. In addition, the food is delicious, and girls like men who cook delicious food. Don't worry about it, just let her see your advantages as much as possible.
Secondly, you must love sincerely, honor her parents with all your heart, love her harder, and be a Real man until she falls in love with you too. Girls with good family conditions will not pay too much attention to financial conditions, but more to sincerity.
Finally, different strategies should be adopted for different types of girls! For nymphomaniac girls, you must learn to act cool; for arrogant girls, you must use strength and charm to make her surrender; for girls who meet too many people, you must learn to act cool; For a knowledgeable girl, you should be more knowledgeable than him; for a taciturn girl, you should be funny; for a carefree girl, you should be bold and unrestrained; for a sporty girl, you should make your body full of explosive power ...! In short, girls are human beings, and they have preferences and biases! Only by doing what they like can you get twice the result with half the effort!
When many boys meet girls with good family conditions, they may have low self-esteem and regress. , thinking that he is inherently deficient and cannot be favored by girls. The characteristic of girls with good family conditions is that they seem unattainable on the surface. In fact, as long as they gain their approval,It's not difficult to catch them. You have to at least try hard and you will know the result.
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