Marry a wife with virtue, and keep concubines with sex. If you are chasing a girl for the purpose of getting married (any relationship that is not for the purpose of getting married is just a hooligan), then you first need to see what the girl's character is like. It is better not to pursue a girl who has a bad character.
1. Girls with bad character are full of lies
People who lie are not necessarily He is a person with bad character, but a person with bad character must be a person who lies all day long. Especially for girls, it may be difficult to see a man's character in front of his words, because normal men don't like to talk very much.
Girls are different. Girls all like to talk, especially to their acquaintances. It is easiest to tell whether a girl has a good character or not. You can tell just by watching her talk.
A girl with bad character especially likes to lie. No matter who she is telling, she will never tell the truth. Even to her relatives, she can lie. few.
Therefore, people with good character are very trustworthy, but people with bad character will only care about immediate interests and then lie.
2. Girls with poor character behave one way in front of others but behind their backs
There are wallflowers everywhere. , the so-called bastards just say things based on the situation, and fall to whichever side is advantageous. A person with a bad character will definitely be like this. She never has a bottom line in life and doesn't care what others think of her. She always thinks one way in front of her and another behind her back.
Girls with bad character are like this too. They say good things about you in front of you and say bad things about you to other people behind your back. It seems that there is nothing in her eyes. Just like people she trusts from the bottom of her heart, she is a typical two-faced person.
Such a girl always looks at interests rather than people. She doesn’t trust anyone.
3. Girls with poor character do things without considering other people’s feelings
People are selfish , most of the time people only think about themselves, because as the saying goes, "If you don't think about yourself, you will be punished by heaven and earth." If people live without thinking about themselves, they will lose a lot of things and make their lives unsatisfactory.
But this is not a reason for a person to be absolutely selfish. In addition to thinking about himself, everyone must also consider the people around him. If you only think about yourself blindly and never care about the feelings of others, then this People are people with very bad character. No matter where they go, they are not welcome.
Therefore, a girl with bad character never considers other people’s feelings when doing things. She always only cares about her own interests.
In fact, there is no need to deliberately test whether a person’s character is good or not, because andIf you get along with her for a long time, some of her behaviors will tell you what kind of person she is. If she is really a person with a very bad character, don't get close to her, and learn to stay away from those who are not like you. People who are close to red are red, and those who are close to ink are dark. The environment can change a person. Never have a relationship with a girl with bad character.
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