Some people are successful in all aspects except marriage. Why is this? In fact, most of them are due to their own mentality problems. Today I will talk about why there is no marriage and why marriage always does not go smoothly?
Why have I never had a marriage?
When seeking marriage, we should get rid of the attitude of hating the world. Nowadays, marriage introduction is very developed, and there are even many matchmakers online. However, why can’t I find marriage? It’s because I have a mentality that I like to compare with others.
If you often have the mentality of evaluating whether others can match you, then this mentality is not good, and it will make you become arrogant. It is said in the Ksitigarbha Sutra: Those who pay high tribute to me and are arrogant will be repaid by being humble. Don't always look at whether others are worthy of you. Everyone has a point, a shining point. You must learn to discover the benefits of others. Therefore, if you cannot find marriage, your own mentality is particularly important. What we have to do is to change our mentality.
Why is the marriage always not going smoothly?
The fact that the marriage is always not going smoothly means that both parties have not paid for each other and have not considered the marriage. We should have a mentality of being willing to pay alone and pay for each other. People often think independently without seeking each other's opinions, and the results are always not good. If one spouse is willing to pay for the other, then the other party can also pay for the other. When people are together, there is no love, only grace. Love also comes from grace.
There is a deep karma between husband and wife, and this grace existed even several lifetimes ago. The long-term relationship between marriage is the love between husband and wife. This attitude of being able to give to each other is very important, including maintaining the relationship between husband and wife. When your marriage is not going well, think about how good the other person is to you and take the initiative to do something for them. As long as both parties are willing to think about and pay for each other, the marriage will naturally become smoother.
The above is the content of why you can’t find a marriage and what to do if your marriage always doesn’t go well. Marriage must be supported and maintained by two people. Only a marriage that works together can have good results.
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