In most cases, boys take the initiative to send WeChat red envelopes to girls, but there are exceptions, that is, girls take the initiative to send red envelopes to boys. Should they accept it at this time?
Regarding this issue, we need to understand the thoughts of girls taking the initiative to send you WeChat red envelopes based on the actual situation, and then decide whether to accept them.
1. Fishing behavior
Some player-type girls will have a large number of boys on their mobile phones. These boys are all fish in her fish pond. Such girls are commonly known as "Sea Kings". They will choose to "fish" on some special festivals, and the method is a small red envelope. For example, on Valentine's Day, a 0.52 or 5.2 red envelope will be sent to you. This will make boys feel that they are interested in boys.
Men will choose to give back to women out of face or out of interest in women. The red envelope given back at this time is usually larger than the original one. While girls earn red envelopes, they can also know that men are interested in them, which can be used to focus on training. For example, treating men as good friends, which is commonly known as "fishing."
Some girls even compete for red envelopes. After you give back, she will continue to send you a bigger one, hoping that you will double the amount of red envelopes, and then "stop" at the right time. For the sake of men's face, men will give back a bigger red envelope after receiving it. This kind of girl just takes advantage of this.
Therefore, in this case: it cannot be accepted!
2. Test interest
Girls are relatively reserved creatures, and they rarely express their interests directly. They will express their extra concern for boys through hints, such as sending you a red envelope, asking you what you are doing when you are free, etc. At this time, the girl is actually giving you a hint of interest. If you happen to like the other person, you should seize the opportunity.
Since a girl is interested in you, it will be a matter of course for you to upgrade your relationship. You need to be bolder and don’t wait for the girl to take the initiative to flirt with you. If you refuse to receive a red envelope from a girl, the girl may interpret it as saying that you don't like her and don't want to interact with her.
So, in this case: take it!
3. Feedback behavior
If you have helped a girl, out of gratitude and feedback, the girl will give back to you on some special festivals, and sending you a red envelope is one of them.Many straight men often have misunderstandings at this time and wonder whether the other person is interested in them. The editor here wants to tell you that identifying this kind of signal requires other feedback. The behavior of girls based on feedback psychology cannot be used as a reference.
To identify girls’ interest indicators, you can observe the interaction with girls. For example, will she take the initiative to chat with you and ask you what you are doing; will she chat with you cutely from time to time; will the other party reject her ambiguous words, etc.
So, in this case: it’s up to you whether you accept it or not.
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