Many boys cannot pursue girls, not because they are not good-looking, but because they do not have enough emotional intelligence. After all, chasing girls will definitely not work if they think you are too boring, too childish, or too arrogant. So how should boys with low emotional intelligence pursue girls?
1. Learn to chat
Most boys with low emotional intelligence cannot speak, and what they say is always unintentional. Offend people. For example, when you first meet a girl, you check your household registration and ask for a photo; after seeing a girl’s selfie, you tell her that you don’t look good with makeup, or that the photo is too photoshopped, etc.
Some boys with low emotional intelligence also like to complain about others and feel that they are always right. No matter what others say, always argue with them. And he likes to show off himself inadvertently when chatting.
So if you want to find a partner, the first thing to do is to pay attention to your words and deeds.
2. Learn to care
Boys are more or less paid attention to by older men, but those with low emotional intelligence People are more serious. Don't treat a girl as your accessory. She must accept everything you think is good or bad, or ask the other party to do something.
Girls need to be taken care of and understood, not demanded. So if you like a girl, don't give her a hard time. You should consider the girl's feelings more than your self-expression. A girl will like someone who cares about her at all times, rather than someone who always contradicts her.
3. Learn to respect
Some boys have a sense of superiority when interacting with girls, thinking that girls are stupid and can’t do anything well without them. So I always treat the other person as a child, want to do everything by myself, and then be moved by myself. If you refuse his help, he will attack you and say that you can't do it alone.
So don’t always rush for girls’ things to do, and don’t undermine her confidence. You should be there when she needs you, instead of treating her like a fool who can't do anything.
4. Learn from people with high emotional intelligence
Many people with low emotional intelligence are still very self-aware. , I just don’t know how to change myself. So why not learn from good people and see how they do it. High emotional intelligence does not mean following the crowd, but it means making everyone feel comfortable in whatever you do.
I believe you also know that girls like boys with high emotional intelligence, so learn more from them, and girls will naturally like you.
Low emotional intelligence is not a scourge, as long as you have the will to defeat it. What I fear most is being content with the status quo, knowing that I have low emotional intelligence, and not thinking about how to change myself, but about how to change others and how to make others accept me. If you can't even defeat yourself, how can girls?How will I like you?
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