I often hear people say that if they accumulate too much disappointment, they will no longer love you. But what makes many boys confused is where do so many disappointments come from? Aren’t they usually good? But I think If everything was really good, how could it come to the point of breaking up? You think so? Today we will take a look at the moment when a girl gives up!
1. Attention
A girl can detect the importance you attach to her. I have a friend. She once sang when she was happy. Her boyfriend He said quietly, "You don't sing well, why do you suddenly like to sing?" My friend replied, because I am happy. But her boyfriend suddenly said, "How about I make you unhappy?" My friend felt extremely uncomfortable instantly, feeling that the boy didn't take her seriously. Because of this fuse, the two people separated.
Attention can be the first thing that girls value, which is why I talk about it first.
2. Lack of positive feedback
Girls give boys gifts or do something for boys sincerely, expecting to receive affirmation. For example, a girl gave a boy an AJ, and the boy complained a lot. Think about it, if you spend a lot of money to buy a lipstick for your girlfriend, and then she not only doesn't appreciate you, but also complains to her sisters, "My boyfriend is so stupid that he can't tell the difference between the two lipsticks. How would you feel?"
3. Emotions accumulate and explode.
What’s wrong with you waiting for me for a while? Boys are very tired from working and making money, and I didn’t ask you to accompany me. Baby, I have something to do and I can't come today. Your behavior will increase the accumulation of negative emotions in girls. It may seem to you that you have already explained it and there is no problem, but they will accumulate and explode, so you must make compensation and resolve them afterwards.
4. Control
Boys always want girls to follow their own rules and ignore her demands. You must win her over, or make her surrender and apologize, which will make the girl feel, I am so tired, what have I gained in this relationship? If he really loved me, would he treat me like this? Let's forget it. . Right or wrong in a relationship is not absolutely important. What is important is how you feel about each other.
5. Girlfriend
She and I are just friends. We just had a meal together. Don’t think too much about it. We are just ordinary colleagues. We just dropped her off on the way home. You Don't think too much, if you love your girlfriend just pay more attention to this.
6. No concept of money
When going out, girls pay for meals, or AA. Girls will think, does this boy love me? Why is he not willing to pay for it? I pay, some actions that you think should be done by two people together, but may be different in the eyes of girls. So it must be completed at other times, such asSmall gifts on holidays and care at other times can stabilize a girl's heart.
In fact, there are many, many moments that make girls give up. Here are some examples where people are more likely to make mistakes. The rest is up to you to explore on your own.
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