We often say that someone is possessive, but do you know what possessiveness is? What is it like to be possessive in love? Let’s analyze them one by one for everyone.
What does possessiveness mean?
Is possessiveness usually a weird situation?
1. You will cherish the things you like very much. You will only allow yourself to touch others, and you will feel uncomfortable even if they get even closer.
2. Once you own all the people and things you own, you are not allowed to escape from your hands.
3. He has a strong sense of territory and does not want unfamiliar people to enter his home.
4. Want to monopolize the people and things you like.
Possessiveness in love
In terms of love, possessiveness means caring about your partner When in contact with the opposite sex, possessive love can only represent a person's soul, just like love. In terms of friendship, when a person who is very possessive sees a friend that he likes to hang out with, or a friend who wants to be with him, and sees that the friend is closer to him than he is, he will immediately become jealous, feel very uncomfortable, and even want to have a friend. Control your friends' actions and thoughts.
1. The dangers of possessiveness
Sanmao once said that no matter which emotion, no matter which one, if it is too possessive, it will be the source of pain. The Dangers of Being Possessive Many people talk about how to love yourself. Only then can you know how to love others. To continue the original meaning of this sentence, thinking only about the other person and neglecting yourself is also the original meaning of losing love.
Therefore, appropriately satisfying one’s possessive desires is also an act of loving yourself in order to love others better. Of course, this is not allowed. The point is that excessive possessiveness is a disease. At present, many people in China do not understand and grasp the scale of love more or less, which can easily cause the other party to feel a sense of oppression and restraint, making the other party feel that this kind of love is a kind of possession and coercion, so it is derived from Drawing the ground as a prison and other relatively negative and inaccurate understandings and perceptions.
There are also annoying people around us who are possessive. To a large extent, they have wrong understanding and expression of love. , making the other party feel breathless pressure. In fact, both parties in love need to give each other a certain amount of space. As time passes, the world of love will become more comfortable and relaxed.
In addition, possessive people are not giving to each other to some extent. Love, but hope that the other party will give you more love. In the name of love, blindly asking for too much love from the other party can easily become unbalanced.
2. The benefits of possessiveness
In fact, possessiveness is not necessarily bad. Possessiveness itself is a neutral word. Things will turn to the extreme. If possessiveness is rampant and uncontrolled, If the other party complies, he will intensify his efforts; if the other party resists, he will use force.Pressure force. Some people are calm on the surface but resentful on the inside. This kind of life and this kind of relationship cannot lead to true happiness.
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