Generally speaking, physical contact in the process of chasing a girl is gradual. Only by taking your time and allowing the girl to accept you can you develop further. Many boys are not very clear about this process. For example, if you put a hand on a girl's shoulder and the other party doesn't refuse, can you go further? How should it be done specifically?
p>1. What does it mean to put a shoulder on a girl’s shoulder and the other person doesn’t refuse?
For a girl, putting a shoulder on a girl’s shoulder is an ambiguous and low-sentiment thing (good buddy) (Let’s get to know each other), generally I don’t care too much about it. Physical contact like holding hands and hugging has far more meaning than holding hands. But since she didn’t reject you, it means that she has a good impression of you, but still To the point where I like it. If you haven't been in contact for too long and the girl hasn't rejected your offer, you can choose to pursue the victory and the chance of success is very high.
Of course, if you put a hand on a girl’s shoulder and she doesn’t refuse, then before you prepare to pursue the girl, you must first confirm whether the girl really treats you as a buddy. If so, then reverse the way the girl treats you. Concept, so as not to cause obstacles in the process of chasing girls. If he doesn't treat you as a buddy and doesn't treat you coldly afterwards, then feel free to pursue him boldly.
2. What should I do next if the girl doesn’t refuse her shoulder?
Since the girls have not rejected you, of course you should find a way to go further. How to do it specifically? Here are a few methods:
1. If the sun is very bright on your date, you can give her a When holding an umbrella, take her umbrella. If she doesn't refuse, put it on your shoulder at this time. If she hasn't refused, then you can slowly get very close to her. If she hasn't meant to let you go, then you can slowly try to hold hands. (Of course, this is on the road, don’t make further contact until you hold hands.) This also confirms from the side that the girl is very interested in you.
2. When you are not sure about a girl’s attitude, or you want to get in touch with a girl but don’t know where to start, putting shoulders and touching heads are good tentative actions. Therefore, many boys will start physical contact by shoulder-to-shoulder and head-touching, and then proceed to the next step of contact when they find that girls are not repulsive. For example, when watching a movie about a ghost movie, you can choose to blindfold a girl. If she doesn't refuse, you can choose to hold hands, or when it gets more powerful, you can choose to hold her in your arms. With natural physical contact, as long as you have a beginning, the rest will be easy. Others are like excuses to read palms, lend a shoulder to a girl when she's traveling and she's sleepy... there are many, many ways to make physical contact.
In fact, there are many ways to make physical contact, butThe shoulder-to-shoulder approach is not likely to arouse girls' alertness. It can only be said to be a test method. After you test whether a girl is happy or unhappy, you can make a better plan for what to do next.
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