If a girl can chat happily with you before, but you have recently noticed that her enthusiasm for you has gradually cooled down, she will not pay much attention to you even if you take the initiative to chat with her. This is most likely a sign of girls deliberately being cold and testing boys. What should we do in this case?
1. What did you do wrong?
You must know that girls will not be tested coldly by another boy for no reason. It must be because you have done something wrong before, which makes girls I got bored so I became indifferent to you. In this case, you need to find out why the girl suddenly behaves like this to you? Did you do something wrong? Something made her angry. If so, of course you are admitting your mistake. Even if I am not wrong, you still want to say that I am wrong. Don’t ask me why. When your relationship with a girl is above that of friends but not a lover, this is a breakthrough. In short, you have to show it I care about her so much that I can't live without her.
Of course, don’t rush to explain in this case. First look for the reason yourself. If you really can’t find the reason, If so, the best way is to ask her best friend, because girls like to complain to her best friend, or someone close to her, and then take further measures after knowing the reason.
2. The girl thinks you don’t like her
If this girl liked you before (you discovered it yourself), then she may be deliberately cold and testing boys because of some of your behaviors. Or the words may make her mistakenly think that you don't like her, so she forces herself to be cold towards you. At this time, she wants to see what your attitude is towards her. If this is the case for a girl, it is best to clear up the misunderstanding first and show that you actually like her. As long as the misunderstanding between two people in love is resolved, nothing can stop you. Be careful not to do anything that could cause her to misunderstand you after you tell her that you like a girl. For example, if she finds out that you are having an affair with another girl, she may give up on liking you completely.
3. A girl wants to test how much you like her
Some girls are very insecure in relationships. , without a sense of security, they become frightened birds, always afraid, afraid that you don't really like her, and afraid that they will be hurt emotionally. Therefore, girls will also take a series of measures to test boys' sincerity towards them, and the cold test is just one of them.
Because a girl wants to see what you will do after she becomes indifferent to you, whether you will give up and leave; or pursue her unremittingly. In this trial, the girl wants to see what you do to her. attitude, wanting to see your mood swings for her.
Therefore, if you really like a girl, you should give her a sense of security.In this way, girls can show you their best side instead of testing you with this deliberately cold attitude.
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