We all hope that we can meet the love that lasts a lifetime right away. Some people are very lucky, and their first love can lead to falling in love, getting married and having children; but some people are not so lucky and have to go through several relationships. You will meet the right person. If your girlfriend happens to be such a person and has been in a relationship before you, and what does it mean for your girlfriend to confess her past during the relationship?
1. Trust you enough
Everyone has a past, and this past happened before I met you, and your girlfriend definitely doesn’t want it. And as a girl, she will not easily tell others about my past, even if it is her boyfriend or even my husband. Many girls will choose to hide it. She is afraid that her boyfriend will give up on her after hearing about the past. If your girlfriend confesses about her past, she wants to share her past with you, the ups and downs she has experienced. She not only wants you to know these things, but also wants you to understand her better. I hope you understand her. The past can still accept her. And the reason why she chose to tell you is because she trusts you and trusts you to share the past with her. For such a girlfriend, you can’t bear to abandon her because of the past that hurt her!
@ Shanshan’s Tree: To be honest, I used to be the kind of person who wrapped myself up and didn’t mention a word about my past. . Until I met my husband, I found that as soon as I saw him, all the grievances I had suffered in the past came flooding back to me, and I would unconsciously tell him. First of all, I trust him extremely, and secondly, I am sure that he loves me. Nothing will affect his love for me after he knows my past, so I think that when a girl tells you about her past, she really cares about you and trusts you. .
2. She is ready to break up with you
Some girlfriends will try their best to conceal their past when they are in love with you, but when they are ready to break up, they will feel relieved. , confess to you straight away. Because you are no longer her destination in the future, and she no longer regards you as the person she will spend her whole life with, she doesn't mind you knowing her past. It is precisely because of this that you have become the best tree hole for her, because no one will know these details of the past except her and you, and it is impossible for you to find her in the vast crowd. Sharing the past with you will cause her very little loss, but it will achieve her goal of soothing her emotions. It's like, she is a storyteller, and you come to drink tea and listen to stories. After listening to the story, the tea was gone and everyone dispersed.
Finally, it is normal for a girlfriend to have a past. As long as her past is not too ridiculous, it is worthy of forgiveness. No matter what it means for your girlfriend to confess the past, you can't have any prejudice against her because of her past, because she originally confessed with an attitude of trust in you. If you dislike her, you can imagine how she will feel. disappointment. And you only need to do something wrongBe honest, it is not wrong for your girlfriend to have an ex. You need to respect her and yourself. As for how to choose, it depends on the individual!
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