The goddess is lovelorn, and she needs me to drink with her. How do I show up as a good friend? Here are some of my thoughts.
1. Listen
When the goddess confides her pain to me, I should listen carefully, and Don't interrupt her. I can give her comfort and support and make her feel that I care and understand her.
2. Don’t comfort her
Although I hope to make the goddess feel better, I will not comfort her intentionally. Because this may make her feel that I don't really understand her feelings.
3. Companion
When the goddess is sad, I will accompany her. We can drink together, chat, or do other things to distract ourselves. This makes the goddess feel that someone cares about her and relieves her pain.
4. Avoid talking about exes
Although the goddess may want to talk about exes, I would avoid this topic. Because this may make the goddess more sad and depressed. Instead, I will guide the topic to other aspects, such as work, life, etc.
5. Encourage the goddess
When the goddess is broken in love, I will encourage her. I would tell her that this is just an experience, not a destination. I believe she can learn a lot from this and become stronger and more mature.
When the goddess is lovelorn, as a good friend, we should give her enough care and support. We can listen to her pain, be there for her, avoid talking about her ex, and encourage her to move on. Only in this way can the goddess feel our true care and love.
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