Although we are now in a more open era, it is normal to hold hands and kiss when you fall in love, but some girls are still shy, and they will be more resistant to holding hands and kissing at the beginning of a relationship, and feel it is very frivolous. What about holding hands and kissing during the stages of falling in love? When can I have further contact with girls?
1. Chatting to cultivate feelings
After a couple establishes a relationship, the first step is to chat first. After this, they can chat to understand each other and cultivate feelings. Lay the foundation for girls to accept you. And some girls who are more conservative don’t like things to develop too quickly. She will think that the most important thing between two people is to cultivate mutual understanding and not to do such messy things as holding hands and kissing every day. In love, holding hands and kissing, these physical contacts must be done step by step. .
2. Holding hands on a date
If Lainai chats happily afterwards and there are no problems, then it’s okay. Got a date. In my opinion, holding hands is the first step in falling in love. When going out on a first date, boys need to be bolder and take the initiative to hold a girl’s hand. As long as the girl doesn’t show any resistance, then when we go on dates and play in the future, holding hands will definitely be It is necessary, and this is the stage of love and holding hands. If you hold a girl's hand with a half push and you insist on holding her hand and she doesn't say anything, it means that she is happy in her heart but feels embarrassed. If a girl rejects you sternly, it means that it’s not time to hold hands yet. Don’t worry and try again next time.
Of course, dating is not limited to holding hands, but holding hands is the first physical contact on a date, which lays the foundation for the in-depth relationship later.
3. Hugs and kisses
If you and a girl have already held hands, then you can consider it next Hugs and kisses. There are many types of hugs with girls, happy hugs, sad hugs, shy hugs... these all depend on the actual situation and scene. Maybe she does something that touches you, and then there will be a hug. Kissing between lovers cannot be measured by time. It depends on the occasion, the atmosphere, whether both parties are repulsive, etc. However, kissing on the first meeting may not be appropriate, especially if girls are more conservative. She may feel offended by you. Of course, if you two are more open-minded and think it's nothing, you can try it too.
Generally speaking, holding hands and kissing in several stages of falling in love still depends on your development status, as well as the personality of boys and girls. class. For example, some couples hold hands and kiss or even spend the night together when they first meet. They think this is normal. But some couples only hold hands after three months of dating, and only kiss after half a year. Girls like thisI also feel that it is developing too fast. Don’t think it’s abnormal. This is just individual differences.
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