I believe that most people who choose blind dates want to find their significant other quickly and don’t want to waste time on a completely useless person. So how to judge whether a blind date is a waste of time?
Judge the performance of no success after a blind date:
1. Not contact you by phone or WeChat after the blind date Method
For example, when you don’t want to call the other party during a blind date, the excuse is that you just changed your phone and don’t have a number, and you don’t have WeChat installed, etc. In fact, you don’t want to give your contact information and waste time.
2. The response to sending messages is cold, or no reply
When you contact the other party after a blind date, the response is very cold. Send a few messages to the other party. The other party's answers are simple words such as um, oh, yes, etc., and they don't even reply; if they don't reply more than three times, most of them can't do anything.
3. Never take the initiative to contact you
Every time, you take the initiative to chat with the other party, and the other party never takes the initiative to contact you. Instead, you find the topic, and the other party never asks you questions. , are indifferent to what you say, and often give you the feeling that there is no topic for chatting.
4. I never give you likes or comments when you post in Moments
You have carefully selected Cato’s Moments many times, and it’s like the other person has never seen him before. Likes or comments give you the impression that you have no connection with the other person and are not interested.
5. Don’t answer the phone or speak in a cold tone when answering the phone
Don’t answer the phone when you call the other party, Or he rarely answers the phone, and when he does answer the phone, his tone is very cold.
6. Can’t make an appointment
When I ask the other person out to eat or watch a movie, the other person always says that he has something to do or is busy. In short, he can’t make an appointment.
7. I feel unenthusiastic when I meet you
When I meet you, I look at you with listless eyes, no light in my eyes, and rarely smile.
8. Refuse to give gifts
The custom in many places is that after a blind date, a man will give a gift to a woman One letter. There are also boys in modern society who give gifts if the woman accepts and expresses her willingness, but if the girl refuses to accept, they are mostly out of the question.
9. The introducer feeds back negative information
Generally speaking, the information fed back by the introducer is amplified and combines the other person’s feelings. It is often said that the feeling is very negative. Satisfied, but if the introducer reveals even a little dissatisfied negative information, it is mostly because he is very dissatisfied with you.
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