In this era where there are more men than women, basically every high-quality girl is surrounded by suitors. Naturally, girls will only choose the best among these suitors, so if you are not eye-catching enough, it will be very difficult for you. He might be eliminated directly by girls. Even if you forcefully confess your love, all you will receive is "I'm sorry, I don't think we are suitable". So when the girl says we are not suitable, how should you continue to pursue her?
1. Adjust your emotions first
Generally, boys will be very negative after failing to express their love, feeling that they will never have a chance again, so they want to talk The rational method is to convince girls to accept themselves. Among them, what these boys often say is: Why are we not suitable? Is there something I haven’t done well enough? Tell me, I can change it. . In fact, this method is wrong. There is no reason for feelings in themselves. They are controlled by emotions. If you keep asking girls, it is very likely that you will not even be friends in the end. So if the girl says it's not suitable, can you still pursue her? Of course you can, but before that, you must retreat to make progress, let the girl think you are generous, and tell her that you respect her choice.
2. Keep an appropriate distance
After a girl rejects you on the grounds of inappropriateness, be sure to Don't continue to stalk her. If you have something to say, talk about it. If there is nothing special, treat her like your ordinary friend.
3. Change her impression
While maintaining distance, what you have to do is not only to disconnect, but more importantly, to change her first impression of you, and you The only channel through which you can show yourself to her is your circle of friends. During this period, enrich your social life and show your good state in your circle of friends so that she can see a different you.
4. Try to invite her
When you are attracted again, you should pay attention to appropriately reducing the frequency and frequency of chatting with her. During chatting time, eliminate the mentality that she is the only one, get in touch with more people of the opposite sex, improve yourself, show more of your good side, use the tricks to chase girls, and the girl’s window will open to you little by little. . After going through this preparation period, you can try to ask her out for dinner or something else again. If she agrees, it means she still cares about you. If she still refuses, it proves that she really has no interest in you.