Let me ask everyone in the front row, don’t you all like to quarrel? Do you feel annoyed whenever your girlfriend quarrels with you? Today a fan asked: Is it normal for couples to quarrel? Regarding this question, I I can tell you without hesitation that it is normal! It is normal for two different people to be together and have differences of opinion.
But some people think that as long as they have a quarrel, they will feel that they can't go on and break up.
But at the same time, there are also couples who get better and better when they quarrel, so you have to find out the reason why they don’t hurt their feelings even if they quarrel, instead of blindly avoiding the problem, which cannot solve the problem at all.
So today the editor is here to give you some advice on how to fight without weakening the relationship. Let’s take a look.
1. The quarrel must only be between the two of you, and do not involve others.
2. When quarreling, don’t get in the way of the other person. Just calm down and listen. Being open-minded is very important.
3. Don’t settle old scores, discuss matters as they are, solve them immediately, and learn to give the other party a step up.
4. When you have the same thoughts, admit it honestly, which may evoke the same memories and create opportunities for reconciliation.
5. Don’t think about winning in a quarrel, but remember that the saying “win the fight, lose the emotion” is a real truth.
6. When arguing, don’t just think about yourself. Calm down and give the other party a fair chance to speak.
7. Used to bear mistakes. After reflection by both parties, whoever is at fault should bravely admit it. Even if you calm down and admit your mistake afterwards, it is necessary.
8. Never use cold violence when quarreling. If you use too much cold violence, your relationship will become cold. Tell each other Talk openly about your dissatisfaction and emotions, and never keep a cold war.
9. Enough is enough. Girls should do everything in moderation.
10. Aim to solve the problem and digest it on the day after the quarrel.
11. The problems of the day should be solved on the same day. Arguments should not be left overnight, and you should not go to bed angry.
12. When two people quarrel, your enemy is not the other person, but the issue that caused the quarrel.
13. Do not make personal attacks on the other person, such as involving the other person’s parents or other concerned people.
14. There is no need to send red envelopes or transfer money. Leave a message on the red envelope or transfer.
15. Don’t hurt the other person’s bottom line unless you really want to break up.
16. No very violent body language, such as breaking out of the door, throwing things, slapping the table, etc.
Summary: There are no couples who don’t quarrel. Quarrels are also a way of communication, so don’t be very resistant when it comes to quarreling. There is no doubt that a good quarrel can promote the growth of feelings.
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