A woman’s heart is like a needle in the sea, which many boys cannot fathom. When a girl tells you it's cold in a WeChat chat, many boys may take it literally and ask her to wear more clothes and drink more hot water. But is this really what girls want to express?
In fact, it is not. If we want to find out what girls mean when they say they are cold when chatting on WeChat, we still need to consider talking to girls now. Depending on the stage you are in, you can analyze the corresponding meaning and then make a corresponding reply.
1. First acquaintance stage
When we just added a girl on WeChat, that is, with When you first get to know a girl, if a girl says you are cold in a WeChat chat, it is actually just a casual chat. Therefore, at this time, we must not show excessive concern in our replies. We can simply care about the girl, and then use humor and interesting ways to divert the girl's cold attention. On the one hand, it can leave the impression of a gentleman on the girl; On the one hand, it can also let girls see your humorous and interesting personality traits, which can increase the sense of security and familiarity between you and girls.
For example, the reply in this chat:
2. Familiarity and Contact Stage
When you have known a girl for a while, the two of you have also established a sense of security and familiarity, and have entered the familiarity stage. At this time, if a girl says she is cold to you on WeChat, what she means is actually seeking your care.
At this time, we can guide the topic in an ambiguous direction, relate all topics to each other, create ambiguity through language, and increase the chat tension between two people. Ambiguity is two people It is a sign that a love relationship will be established.
This is a good time to bring two people closer. Use ambiguous language to physically move with the girl, so that the girl can fully feel the warmth of being with you.
Then when you go on a date with a girl, you can naturally have physical contact with the girl, and even establish a romantic relationship inadvertently.
For example, the reply in this chat:
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3. Offline meeting stage
Of course, in addition to chatting on WeChat, we may also encounter situations where girls say they are cold during offline dates. At this time, what she expressed It may mean asking you for a hug, or hinting that you should take the initiative.
After allIf a girl is too proactive, boys may think she is a frivolous girl. Therefore, in order to prevent the boy from not cherishing her because of her frivolous initiative after she establishes a relationship with him, her initiative is usually to guide the boy to take the initiative, and this guidance is very subtle.
However, when many straight boys hear a girl say this, they either tell the girl to go home quickly, blame the girl for wearing too little, or put her own clothes on the girl.
So what should we do at this time?
1. Hold the girl’s hands directly and tell her She: "Did you know that a boy's body temperature is always 2 degrees higher than a girl's?" "It's so that when a girl feels cold, she can warm her hands and cover her hands." Give the girl a simple little reason and let it take its course. I have upgraded my relationship with the girl.
2. Hold the girl directly in your arms and say to her gently: "Silly girl, I am also very cold. Just hold the two of you together and it will warm you up." A simple little excuse can do it If you and a girl have reached the level of hugging each other, are you still far away from a confirmed relationship?
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