When chatting with girls, the first sentence of greeting can be said to be our stepping stone. If the first sentence can arouse her interest and remove her guard, then the subsequent chat will also go smoothly; if the first sentence If your words fail to arouse her interest in replying, then even if you have a high-level presentation, the subsequent chat will feel uninteresting.
Then what should you say as the first thing to say hello to a girl so that she can take off her guard?
1. The first sentence of greeting must be short
When greeting, a long first sentence will only make girls too lazy to read. After all, most mobile phone screens now The size can hold up to about 20 words in one line. If it exceeds one line, it will easily put visual pressure on the girl and increase her defensiveness.
Therefore, the first sentence we use to greet girls must be simple, and the number of words should not exceed 20 words.
2. The first sentence of greeting must be smooth.
It is difficult to continue chatting in different channels. If there are typos or typos in the first sentence of greeting a girl, Wrong sentences, or even some jokes that she doesn't understand, make it difficult for a girl to understand, and it will naturally be difficult for your chat to continue.
3. The first sentence of greeting should show confidence
Confident men are attractive . But after many boys add a girl, due to their lack of relationship experience, they always like to ask some unconfident questions, such as: "Do you mind adding her as a friend?" Thought it was polite to ask. In fact, it's just a manifestation of my own lack of confidence. It reflects that you regard yourself as weak and inferior in your heart, and subconsciously think that the girl is superior to you, so you are trying to climb up to her.
In other words, your words show that you are not confident and tell girls: I am not very good at it. Can you consider accepting me?
Since you yourself say that you can’t do it, how can you ask others to say that you can do it? Such an opening, not to mention letting the girl take off her guard, will only make her completely lose interest in you and don’t want to Let’s talk to you again.
4. The first sentence of greeting should be unique
There are so many social software now, and you are definitely not the only one who has said hello to an outstanding girl, so if you and Like everyone else, the first words of greeting are "hi" and "hello". It will only make girls not want to reply.
5. The first sentence of greeting should not bore girls
After adding girls as friends , many people will go to say hello immediately, often finishing the greeting in a hurryAfter the call, I suddenly got stuck. I didn’t know how to continue the conversation. Then I started asking the other person various questions, what is his name, what kind of job does he do, and does he have a boyfriend? The girl didn’t reply to you after asking questions continuously. .
Starting to ask questions about girls in the first sentence is a disguised way of asking for value, just like a beggar begging on the street. It will only make people bored, and straightforward questions are not helpful. With any emotion, it will not make girls want to chat.
There are also overly intimate titles, such as cutie, darling, little sister, etc. Don’t just see someone calling someone sweet on Douyin and think that all girls like it. Without any emotional foreshadowing, girls will only treat them as hooligans and losers.
In addition to these, the approach is too straightforward, and some words that are very close to each other are said very enthusiastically: "Miss, I feel that we are so destined" "Why don't you call me when you go out on the weekend?" If you are too passionate and intimate like this, it will only make girls feel confused or even disgusted.
You must know that girls are different from boys. Boys like someone and want to establish an intimate relationship directly. Even if there is no process, they can accept it. .
But for girls, even if they like someone in their hearts, they will not immediately have the idea of ????establishing an intimate relationship, not to mention that the girl has not fallen in love with you yet.
When a boy is too intimate and enthusiastic towards a girl, he will subconsciously stimulate her safety and defensive psychology. Therefore, when you say hello to a girl and say the first sentence, you must be prepared in advance and don't start randomly with enthusiasm.
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