Boys who can chat always have a great advantage when chasing girls. However, not all boys can chat. There are even some stupid boys who can only chat with girls for a few words before turning into a cold scene. It’s an awkward conversation, how can a stupid person chat with a girl?
First of all, you must know that girls are emotional animals, and they judge things by their feelings, so even if you You may be stupid, but as long as you can use a few words to give her the feeling she wants, you can still have a good chat with a girl. So what exactly should you do?
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Here are 4 tips for you:
1. Exchange questioning method
Think about it, a question that connects your personality, work, hobbies, tastes, and three views How can someone attract you when you don’t even know about them? And if you keep asking them questions, they may think it’s unfair. Why is it that she keeps sharing while you remain unmoved? The correct approach is this, first of all Share your information and then ask the girl questions. For example:
"My hobbies are reading, playing ball, and musical instruments. What about you?" In this way, because we contribute our own value first and then ask the other party, the other party will tell us her information. (Simple summary: Talk about yourself first, then ask others)
In this way, the other party can feel your trust in her, and more importantly, you have provided value first. This way neither party will feel any pressure.
2. Expression status class
In fact, when a stupid person chats with a girl, it does not mean that you need to ask What topic, and this topic itself cannot bring any practical help to the girl, but it can extend the chat topic between you.
3. Dig keywords
Maybe you don’t know how to extend the topic when chatting with girls, but you always Can we dig out keywords from the girl’s words? Maybe this keyword may represent her current status, what she is doing, her hobbies, her favorite celebrities, etc. We can cater to her by mining the keywords in the other person’s words. taste to make chatting smoother.
4. Establish a sense of comfort in chatting
No matter whether you are stupid or not, as long as you can have a comfortable feeling when chatting with girls, even if you are just a listener, then your chat will be It can proceed smoothly. When chatting becomes the norm, it will become natural for her to take the initiative to contact you. On the contrary, if the comfort level is not perfect, even if she wants to send you a WeChat message, she will consider it.Not too abrupt.
Example A.
Female: Where are you from?
Male: I am yours. (Too abrupt)
Example B.
Male: You are so perfect, but you have a flaw (foreshadowing in advance)
Female: What is the flaw
Men: My shortcomings
Whether a man is stupid, can't speak, or something else, the first thing you have to do is Overcome your inner fear first. Whether it is social software or chatting, you have to be bolder, overcome your inner conflicts, and don't be so excited that you can't speak when you see a beautiful woman. Then improve your emotional intelligence, show your value in life, and let girls take the initiative to be interested in you, not your circle of friends and your social skills are 0, and finally your chat skills.
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