Have you ever encountered such a situation, chatting with a girl you like, but the girl disappears while chatting. Interestingly this phenomenon seems to be very common. They were chatting happily, back and forth, but suddenly the other person seemed to have disappeared. If you have also encountered this situation, then read on:
1. What happens when you are chatting with a girl and then disappears?
First, let’s analyze it Here are the reasons why you disappear after chatting with girls:
1. Girls no longer want to pick up your bad jokes
For example, you were still able to chat with girls. It's good, but this is because the atmosphere of the chat is so good that you get a little carried away, and the chat seems a bit too unscrupulous. Maybe some of the views or words you say make the girl feel particularly inappropriate. Then you continue chatting happily, and the girl may be impatient with you, so she immediately doesn't want to talk to you.
2. The girl is tired from chatting and suddenly falls asleep
If you have already chatted with the girl It’s been quite a while since we chatted until she was already sleepy, but she still couldn’t bear to end the chat with you, and kept chatting with you despite her sleepiness. Maybe she fell asleep easily while chatting in bed, which made you think she Suddenly there were no people. But this situation is actually not bad. At least when the girl wakes up on the second day, you can continue chatting with her.
3. Girls suddenly have other things to do
Things that interrupt chat can also be divided into many types. If it is about work or life, of course it will not affect you. relationship progress. What you are afraid of is that the girl has other feelings or other suitable partners, chat with her, and then she chooses to cut off the conversation with you.
If this is the case, it would be a bit bad, because you belong to the category of spare tire, and you are a spare tire that girls do not like very much. If you still want to promote the relationship, it will probably be more difficult.
2. What to do if you disappear while chatting with a girl
1. Stop in time Chat
If you find that you send a message to a girl and she doesn’t respond, and she chats without saying hello to you, then the person disappears. In this case, don’t worry about the girl’s reason. , first stop the chat promptly. Because if you send a message to a girl, she may not see it, and you won't wait for her response. Instead, it will appear that you are eager and needy, which will make the girl resent you more and more. If you stop chatting, girls will guess why you stopped sending messages and become curious about you.
2. Maintain a weak connection and wait for the opportunity
After the girl disappears after chatting with her, there is no need for you to rush to continue chatting with her. Wait until the next day to send a good morning, maintain weak contact, and see what the girl thinks of you.How about feedback. While waiting for the window, you need to maintain a weak connection with the other party, which is enough to simply have some sense of connection without having to talk in depth.
When a girl gets better at chatting with you, there is no need for you to hold on to the past. Of course, if a girl doesn’t respond well to your chat, there’s no need for you to continue wasting time on her.
Generally speaking: when a girl chats with you and the person disappears, once this happens, you Don't care too much. Otherwise it will affect your mentality. There is no need to guess why girls are chatting with each other and then disappear, it doesn't really matter. What you have to do is still the same things you did before, make contact when it’s time, chat when it’s time to chat, go on dates when it’s time to do so. Just don't be affected by these trivial things.
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