When you have just added a girl to WeChat, it is a good opportunity to get to know girls, but most boys fail to grasp it. After adding a girl to WeChat for the first time, they don’t know what to talk about and can only helplessly chat with their friends. Circle the girls and give them likes. So what should you talk about when you add WeChat for the first time to make the chat go better?
First of all, you must know that the first chat is like the first meeting. It is very important. The quality of your words will affect your future development. If you are a young person, and the first three sentences cannot make the girl have the urge to talk to you, or make the girl feel that you are boring or even disgusting, then you are almost There was no hope.
There is a good trick here, that is, after adding WeChat, look at her profile picture or photos in the circle of friends. Only by deepening your understanding can you have a good chat.
1. Chat opening
You can add her signature, avatar, name, or even a friend Start by circle the photo. For example, if her name is "Big Winter Melon", then you can say: I didn't expect such a warm winter melon in the world. It is worth noting that if the girl responds to you, then you can chat further, but the girl is too lazy to talk to you, then I advise you to find someone else.
2. Chatting routines
Start complimenting her, and then immediately start pretending to be X. You have to know that you have to have your own status, and you can't praise girls all the time. Then you can look at her Moments. For example, if she has a lot of selfies in her Moments, you can ask her girl if you are an Aries. Because Aries are passionate and narcissistic.
If her circle of friends has many parties or organizes many bureaus. Then you can say: Hey, I found that you are a calm girl, and you are a Libra? Then if it is music and has many mottos, you can ask him if he is a Capricorn. On the other hand, what should I do if the girl says nothing is right? It doesn’t matter, brother, you are not relying on this to make a living or it is not a big deal. You are just trying to make her happy. If she guesses correctly, she will be happy. If she guesses incorrectly, you can still be funny. Do you understand? For example I said you can call girls, but I couldn’t guess correctly. Could it be that you are the constellation of the Big Dipper?
3. In-depth topic
At this time, you can start talking based on his circle of friends, such as where the girl often goes to eat, and why she is unhappy. You can ask her to retain a man first to retain his stomach, how is your cooking? ?In this way, we started talking about her personal life step by step from her circle of friends.
The following are some common mistakes:
1. Do you want to date a beautiful woman?
Before your relationship has reached the point where you can date out, brother, at this time, you If you casually ask a girl out, she will think you are scary and dangerous. If you don’t block you, who will you block?
2. YesPhotos?
I just added you not long ago, and you are still familiar with each other, so I asked for photos, and also asked for photos without makeup. What will women think when they see it? Do you mean that they should be deleted if they are ugly? Girls will think you are very powerful and ignore you. After all, what should you do if you may make dangerous moves?
3. Go at night Where are you?
Many people haven’t known each other for a long time. They will say whatever they want when they find out about them at night. Some girls, especially the simple ones, will think that you are just a nightclub girl who does not do your job. After all, there are many girls who spend the night. Just watch TV series. If you keep asking questions, the girl will think that you think she is not a well-behaved girl, and she will slowly reject you.
Chatting should not only pay attention to method, but also pay attention to timing. Generally, after dinner is the best time to chat. At this time, girls are in a relaxed mood, and the atmosphere will be more harmonious when chatting with girls. And girls will be in a good mood, so you can take the opportunity to increase your favorability.
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