Ambiguity is the only way to establish a relationship. Only by letting the girl slowly accept your ambiguity during the chat can you be together. However, if the ambiguity is too deliberate, it is likely to disgust the girl. , then how can you chat with a girl ambiguously without arousing her resentment?
First of all, you must pay attention, step by step, For example:
On the first day, you looked at the girl’s Moments and said to her: The type of photo you have makes me irresistible.
On the third day, you said to the girl: I feel very happy when chatting with you, and I like chatting with you more and more.
On the seventh day, I said to the girl again: I think of you from time to time today, which is strange.
Just gradually heat up slowly. After a month, you can directly say: What are you doing, my dear? Suddenly you find that you have naturally entered an ambiguous relationship.
Then learn to withdraw in time, such as:
When they first met, "flirting" Immediately "pull away" after you finish. When you start to use gradually deeper flirting methods, you must not stay on it. For example, you can't keep saying that you miss her. Say it once and it will be treated as if you haven't said it before. With this sentence, otherwise flirting will turn into a sense of need, focusing too much on emotional issues, and the detached feeling of flirting will be gone.
Every time you communicate, you have to "stop after flirting and only flirt once." In this way, she will miss flirting and really think more about it.
"Hey, he doesn't hate it either, but what does he mean today/Does he like me?/Did I misunderstand?". Then, these thoughts will slowly produce feelings, and the feelings will become ambiguous.
Let me share with you some ambiguous words:
1. "I saw something last night It was a beautiful shooting star. I even made a wish for it! So, I said to the shooting star, "I hope XXX (her name) will become more beautiful." But I found that the shooting star actually flew back!"
2. You: You are actually a very patient person
Her: Why
You: If I don’t tell you why, you won’t stop. Ask why!
3. When she says to you: You are so annoying. You can use this trick.
You: Do you know the difference between Chinese girls and foreign girls?
Her: I don’t know!
You: The difference lies in expressing love. Foreign girls will say: I love you!And Chinese girls will say: You are so annoying!
4. Use homophonic ways to flirt and tease girls' hearts. A little trick to tease little girls, boys can say to girls: I have always done things with certainty. The only thing missing is your kiss. This is the use of idioms and homophones to create a semantic coincidence and touch the hearts of girls inadvertently.
Emotionally, men must have the courage to guide girls. When it comes to relationships, girls follow their feelings. What you have to do is guide her feelings to you.