Recently, while chatting with friends about the topic of love, I discovered that many have had their share of "twisted" experiences. Honestly, I used to be someone who was particularly twisted—liking someone but too afraid to express it, fearing rejection and loss of face, which led to missing out on many opportunities. Over time, I gradually realized that there's really no need to be so entangled in matters of the heart.
I remember a conversation with a close friend who said, "You know, when my ex-boyfriend broke up with me, I actually felt a great sense of relief." I was quite surprised because I had seen how anxious and unsettled she was over the relationship, and it really pained me. She said, "I used to always worry about him leaving, to the point where I didn't feel like myself anymore. Now, looking back, rather than worrying about losing him all the time, it's better to enjoy the happiness of the moment."
That"s so true! As "Mr. Lin, who doesn't eat spicy food" commented, the most important thing in a relationship is to be honest with each other. If you like someone, say it; if there's a problem, communicate. There's no need to tire yourself out. I know a friend who is very brave; she directly confessed her feelings to a guy she liked. Although they didn't end up together, she had no regrets and felt that at least she had tried, leaving no room for regret.
When it comes to courting women, I believe the most important thing is sincerity. Don"t think about using tricks or deliberately trying to please the other person. As I saw in a video, what truly attracts people is your authentic self. Instead of racking your brains to guess what the other person likes, it's better to show your true self. After all, a facade can't be maintained for long.
Another important point is to believe that you are worthy of love. I used to be very insecure, always feeling unworthy of the person I liked. Over time, I realized that this mindset only made me less confident. Love is equal; there's no hierarchy. As a friend in the comments said, "a little more care," the most precious thing in a relationship is the genuine care and effort from both sides.
So, love really doesn"t have to be so twisted. If you like someone, be brave and pursue them; if you're together, cherish it; if you break up, learn to let go. Life is long, why miss out on more beautiful possibilities for the wrong person? Remember, the hand that carries trash cannot embrace happiness. Let go of unnecessary worries and love with ease, and you'll find that love can actually be simple and beautiful.
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