If you are excited to send a message to a girl, looking forward to sharing your joy with her, but after sending the message to the girl, the girl does not reply to you for a long time. Just when you think she will not reply to you, the girl will reply to you. Message, this is the situation where girls are slow to reply to messages, so what should we do at this time?
1. Reasons why girls are slow to message you
Remember what I said before, if a girl doesn’t reply to your messages, it basically means that the girl doesn’t like you at all. So if a girl also replies to your message, but the speed of replying to your message is very slow, do you know what the girl means? Of course I don’t like you very much, but girls still respect you, at least they won’t ignore you.
But here, special attention should be paid: Don’t chat awkwardly! The best thing is to change the topic at another time, such as the next day, and reopen the topic. Chatting is inherently tiring, as you have to type and think. If you and a girl don't chat well enough, it's easy for both of you to lose patience.
2. What should you do if a girl is slow to reply to messages?
If you meet a girl who is chatting with you, how fast will she reply to messages? If the situation is very slow, there are two ways to alleviate the embarrassment:
The first is to take the route of high emotional intelligence: be sensible and talk at another time
The best thing to do when you encounter a girl who is slow to reply to messages The solution is of course to chat at another time, because at this time the girl may not be able to chat with you wholeheartedly due to emotional problems or other issues.
Then whatever you talk about at this time will not have a very good effect. So the usual advice in this situation is to talk at another time and not continue the conversation. This is of course also a very high EQ and very interesting approach.
The second is to engage in awkward chatting like dog-licking:
When it comes to the word dog-licking, most people may be discouraged directly. In fact, dog licking is an effective and reliable method in today's increasingly impatient era.
So how to chat in a dog-licking style? This method of chatting is definitely not suitable for everyone. It is more suitable for friends who have some literary and artistic atmosphere, or who have more divergent thinking. That means you can continue the conversation no matter what.
If you can have these qualities or can disguise them:
1. Shameless and cute.
2. Don’t be timid even if you are stubborn.
3. The talent of being able to write a short essay on anything.
Of course, the above three qualities are the vast majority of more distinctive talents. People are unlikely to have the above three qualities, so the best way is to talk about the first one at another time. .
Actually what I want to say is that sometimes it’s awkward to chat,When you really have certain qualities, you can forcefully bring someone back to life and start a conversation.
There are countless people around me because they have the above three little qualities. And then conquered those very difficult bones.
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