When it comes to the topic of pursuing women, I have a lot to say. I used to be a "dating novice" who faced constant failures, with the experience of being rejected four times in a month making me question my life. But later, I gradually figured out some tricks, and now I can confidently say: chasing women isn't that hard, the key is to master the right methods.
First, it's important to make the woman value your pursuit. Many men immediately come off as overly devoted, almost wanting to tell the woman "you're the only one in my eyes." But honestly, this approach can make you seem too easy to get, thus losing her interest. It's like building blocks as a child; playing alone feels boring, but if there's a friend to compete with, it becomes much more fun. So, appropriately letting her know you have other female friends can actually spark her competitive spirit, making her value your pursuit more.
Second, it"s crucial to be interesting in conversations. Nowadays, women have many suitors around them, and if you only talk about clichéd topics, you'll definitely be out of the game. I suggest accumulating some humorous jokes and romantic lines, like "Since the first time you said goodnight to me, I decided to return a goodnight to you every day," which is both funny and romantic. Of course, jokes should be used appropriately, not forced, or they might come off as awkward.
Lastly, maintaining a normal mindset is key. Many men get nervous on dates, afraid of not performing well. In reality, women care more about your naturally revealed true self. Try treating her like a regular friend, without overthinking, which can actually highlight your strengths. Remember, what"s meant to be will be, and what's not shouldn't be forced; keeping a relaxed attitude can make the date go more smoothly.
Speaking of high EQ responses, I also have some insights. For example, when a woman says "Work is so tiring," you can respond humorously: "Is it because you've been thinking about me all day at work, so you're tired?" This kind of response shows concern without losing its charm, often making her smile. Or you could say, "You must be exhausted? After work, I'll be your personal masseuse." This gentle and considerate reply lets her feel your care and affection.
In summary, pursuing women isn"t something that happens overnight; it requires patience and skill. I hope my experiences can be helpful to you. If you have similar experiences or insights, feel free to share them in the comments, let's learn and exchange ideas together!
