Recently, while chatting with friends about the topic of love, I noticed that many women easily fall into a state of "fatigue" in their relationships. This isn't physical tiredness, but a psychological exhaustion. This sense of fatigue often stems from the "twists and turns" we experience in our emotional lives.
Have you ever had such an experience? Liking someone but being too afraid to confess, fearing rejection or loss of face. Once in a relationship, constantly worrying about whether the other person might suddenly leave. After a breakup, being unable to move on, stuck in memories and unable to extricate oneself. Honestly, I used to be like that too, always feeling that admitting to liking someone was particularly difficult, as if saying it out loud meant losing something.
Once, I was talking to a friend about her romantic experiences, and she said, "The moment he broke up with me, I actually felt relieved." I was very surprised and asked her why. She said, "When we were together, I was always worried he would leave, and I did some foolish things, becoming less and less like myself. Only after he really left did I realize that there was nothing to fear, and I actually felt relieved." Hearing her story, I suddenly realized that often, our sense of fatigue comes from the shackles we place on ourselves.
A netizen commented, "More care ????," and I think that's very right. In relationships, the most important thing is to be honest with each other. If you like someone, say it; if you don't, then don't. There's no need to hide it. Another netizen said, "Honesty is key ????," which is also what I wanted to say. The worst thing in a relationship is to be twisted; the more twisted you are, the more miserable you become.
I used to be a very insecure person, always feeling unworthy of the person I liked. Every time someone confessed to me, I thought they were joking, unwilling to believe that I was worthy of love. It wasn't until later, when I started studying psychology and gradually accepted myself, that I finally made peace with myself. A sense of low self-worth can really make you less and less confident, and you unconsciously put yourself in a lower position, trying to please others. But in relationships, the more you lower yourself and try to please, the more others will look down on you.
So, I want to tell all women, when it comes to love, don't be twisted. If you like someone, go after them; if you don't, let go. Instead of worrying about losing, enjoy the present. Often, we are unhappy because we think too much. Why think so much? Those who are meant to leave will leave eventually, and you can't keep them. It's better to manage the present well, live well now, and embrace the happiness in front of you.
For those who have already left, don't linger, let them go. Since they have left, it proves they were the wrong person, and fate has already made arrangements, just accept it. Only by saying goodbye to the wrong person can you meet the right one. How can you embrace happiness with hands full of trash? Accept the present, live well now, and you can welcome the future.
In conclusion, the fatigue and confusion in love are often traps we set for ourselves. Let go, accept the present, and everything is the best arrangement. I hope every woman who feels tired in her relationship can find her own happiness.
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