Recently, while chatting with a few single friends, I noticed an interesting phenomenon: many guys complain that when they talk to girls, they often receive a "hmm" as a response, and then they don't know how to continue the conversation. Honestly, as someone who has been through this, I can really understand this confusion. Today, I want to talk about this topic and share some tips on how to find love.
First of all, the word "hmm" can't be generalized. Sometimes, when a girl says "hmm," it might just mean she's listening to you or doesn't have a better response at the moment. But sometimes, there might be a deeper meaning behind this "hmm." For example, if she replies with "hmm hmm," it might indicate that she's very interested in the topic; if it's just a single "hmm," it might mean she's not very interested in the topic or she's not in a good mood.
Speaking of this, I recall a comment from a netizen: "Work hard, be positive and cheerful. Have plans for the future." This statement really makes sense. Girls are often attracted to guys who have goals and plans. So, instead of obsessing over the meaning behind "hmm," it's better to spend more time improving yourself.
Next, I want to share some practical advice on finding love. First, the most important thing in pursuing a girl is to be thoughtful. For example, buy her a milk tea when she's thirsty, or pick her up when she's tired from shopping. These small details can often touch a girl's heart. I remember once, my friend sent a box of red date and ginger tea to a girl during her menstrual period, and the girl was so moved that they ended up together.
Secondly, romantic dates are also very important. Take her to the beach to dig for crabs, go surfing, or run in the rain to declare your love, these are all great experiences. A netizen named "Clear Rose" mentioned: "Take her for a ride on a tandem bicycle in the park, it's extremely romantic." Indeed, such small romantic gestures can make a girl feel your thoughtfulness.
Lastly, don't forget to give her small surprises every day. For example, give her a bag that suits her style, or a box of lipsticks in various shades. Keep this up for a month, and she will definitely feel your sincerity. Of course, it's also important to be sweet-talking, compliment her beauty every day, and let her know your love.
In conclusion, finding love is not a difficult thing, the key is to be thoughtful. I hope these small tips can help single men who are troubled by "hmm." Remember, love needs to be nurtured, and as long as you are thoughtful, you will definitely find the right person.
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