Recently, while chatting with a few single guy friends, I discovered a common frustration: when talking to girls, a simple "Ah, this" from them can leave us at a loss. Honestly, I too have been baffled by this "Ah, this," but over time, I've figured out some strategies. Today, I'd like to share my insights with you.
First, it's important to understand that when a girl says "Ah, this," she is often expressing surprise or a sense of being overwhelmed. At such moments, our response becomes crucial. I remember once when I confessed my feelings to a girl, and she responded with "Ah, this." My heart sank, but I quickly composed myself and said, "Don't feel pressured. My feelings for you are my own, and I don't want to influence you." This actually helped her relax, and we ended up becoming good friends.
When trying to escalate a relationship, a girl might say "Ah, this" because you're being too direct. Once, when I asked a girl out and she responded with "Ah, this," I immediately joked, "Why are you so nervous? I didn't say I'd marry you or anything." She laughed, and the atmosphere lightened up significantly. So, a sense of humor is really important.
When giving a gift, a girl might say "Ah, this" because the gift is too extravagant. Once, I gave a small gift to a girl, and she said "Ah, this." I quickly responded, "Don't feel pressured. It's not expensive, and I have no use for it. It's better to give it to someone who might appreciate it." She accepted it and later even asked me out.
When inviting a girl out, she might say "Ah, this" because she's not ready yet. Once, when I asked a girl out and she responded with "Ah, this," I said, "Let's talk about it when we're both free." She later took the initiative to ask me out, and we went to see a movie together.
In summary, when a girl says "Ah, this," we need to learn to ease the pressure and not overwhelm her. A good sense of humor and a relaxed attitude can often make a girl develop a liking for you. I hope these tips can help you find love sooner!
Finally, here's a comment from a netizen: "I used to be completely thrown off by 'Ah, this,' but now that I've learned these techniques, chatting with girls feels so much easier!" I hope you too can benefit from these and find your own happiness.
