Many boys have this trouble: they have just added a girl on WeChat, so they don’t send a message. It seems that they are not proactive enough. When sending a message, they don’t know how to start a topic. So how do you chat with a girl you just met so that you can quickly open up the topic?
1. Create a relaxed atmosphere
When chatting with a girl you just met, the opening remarks do not have to be in text, and can be replaced by emoticons. Each emoticon pack can make boring words interesting and make your chat atmosphere more relaxed. This kind of chat makes it easier for girls to take off their guard and quickly get involved in the chatting situation.
2. Start from the known conditions
When chatting with girls, the biggest taboo is to investigate the household registration type If you want to avoid this situation, you must learn to find topics. How to find topics?
Topics can be found from known conditions. For example, WeChat avatar, friend circle, signature, friends watching, etc. These are the information that you can see as long as you have her WeChat account.
As long as you find the entry point of the topic and start chatting, you will slowly learn more information. At this time, you can ask some appropriate questions without making the girl feel disgusted or embarrassed.
3. Find topics around the scene where you met
If you have already met, it will be easier to talk. , you can find a bunch of topics around the acquaintance scene.
For example, if you meet friends at a party, you must have gotten along once, and if you have a certain understanding of each other, you can talk about what happened that day, your impression of her, ask her about your impression, etc.
4. Take the initiative to share your life
In addition to asking questions, teach the topics when chatting with girls. A good way to get girls to take the initiative to share is to introduce yourself first.
When the girl looked at him, she thought, this boy is very natural and proactive, so she naturally relaxed. When she lets go of her guardedness and restraint towards you, she will be willing to take the initiative to share some issues that are not very private.
Of course, introducing yourself is not just like introducing yourself to an interview, where you should introduce your name, monthly salary, and savings one by one. Remember, you are not here for a blind date.
Let’s just talk about life, hobbies and other lighter topics naturally with the mentality of making friends, which will make it easier to get closer.
In short, when chatting with a girl you just met, don’t be nervous and show your true self normally, which will make youOur communication is more relaxed and pleasant.
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