Some children who are not good at sociability and are slightly autistic always find it difficult to chat with girls. In fact, the purpose of chatting when flirting with girls is to naturally make the other party feel uncertain, so that they can have a sense of freshness and excitement. In terms of romance, if you only have a few polite words when chatting with a girl, you will still be unable to get rid of the cold silence. I hope these first-aid topics to avoid cold spots can help you play a corresponding role in flirting with girls.
First aid topics to avoid cold moments when chatting
1. Talk about marriage
For example Constellations, zodiac signs, Enneagram, MBTI, personality (similar personalities/complementary personalities), palmistry, face reading...
It’s just anything, it’s all about marriage, implying that the two of you will develop a romantic relationship. Suitable - you are her ideal person!
Of course, if you directly tell a girl "I am your Mr. Right" or "I am your Prince Charming", it is of course a low-energy operation. This requires A little twist, continuation, and transition will make the conversation interesting and less likely to fall into awkward conversations.
2. Chatting ambiguously
When chatting with girls, in addition to showing your attractiveness, you also use With some emotional rendering, as long as the effect is achieved, even if you and a girl have an awkward chat, it will be a wonderful experience.
During the chat process, it is not enough to please girls and make girls happy unilaterally. Therefore, talking about some ambiguous topics may promote the development of the relationship between two people.
Examples: "I have a secret" "What secret?" "I dreamed of you last night" "What did you dream about me" "That's a secret" "You are so bad, you deliberately tease others Appetite"...
3. Chatting about trivia
No matter how good the emotional relationship between two people is, there are still endless topics to talk about. When you are chatting with a girl, if there is a cold spot, you can think of some trivial topics to arouse the other party's curiosity and interest.
For example, some trivial knowledge about the body can easily arouse the interest of girls.
Example: "There are more bacteria in the human mouth than there are people on the earth. Kissing is equivalent to human communication between two planets."
"Scientists say , Dieting can cause your brain to eat itself, that is, the neurons in the hypothalamus eat their own organelles and proteins."
"Sweat itself is odorless, and the odor is produced by bacteria mixed in the sweat."
Before this, maybe you and a girl were having an awkward chat about a certain topic (for example, whether you have eaten or not). At this time, you can easily develop a new topic by sharing some trivia.
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