No one is born to be an expert in love. Most boys will make some mistakes on the road to chasing girls, but some are good at summarizing and correcting them, while some still end up being blocked. Maybe you even know the reason for being blocked. Now let’s talk about the topic of being blacklisted for chasing girls.
1. Think about the reasons for being blocked
Under normal circumstances, girls will not be blocked casually one person. If a girl doesn't like someone, she can just ignore him, unless the other person is really annoying or has violated the girl's bottom line, so he is blocked. Find out the reason for being blocked, and then consider solutions.
2. Reflect on your own mistakes
Generally speaking, the most common mistakes boys make are being pretentious and pursuing others.
The first situation: You post a lot of non-nutritious content every day, such as: "Good morning, have you eaten, are you busy at work, go to bed early", some girls will choose to reply "Oh" , "Okay", "Thank you", this is out of politeness, but the boy thinks that the girl likes him, so he insists on sending messages to the girl every day, which makes her annoyed in the end.
Another situation is mentioned above. If a girl doesn’t reply to the message, she will use negative methods to attract attention. First of all, you should understand that if a girl doesn't reply to a message, it's a kind of polite rejection. If you bother the other person again, she will think it is harassment, so she will block you.
The third situation may be that the girl already has a partner, and you keep chatting with her, and her boyfriend is not happy.
Solutions:
1. Adjust your mentality
Many boys feel like the sky is falling after they are blacklisted. In fact, being rejected by a girl is a very normal thing. Everyone makes mistakes in their pursuit of happiness, and that’s okay. Learn to regulate yourself so that you can get back on your feet.
2. Improve yourself
Not only should you enhance your attraction to girls, but you should also improve your emotional intelligence. Many times, girls are not chased but attracted. Girls reject you because you are not attractive enough. In addition, not chatting is also a negative point. If you have nothing to talk about, or always suppress the other person, then the girl will not like you.
3. It is best to pursue another person
If a girl just ignores you, then it means there is something more. Hope; but if a girl blocks you, there is basically no possibility of accepting it. Don't even think about saying, apologize to the girl, and then start over. The girl doesn't need your apology at this time, she just hopes to forget this unpleasant experience as soon as possible. So don't apologize and don't continue to pester. Not as good asThink of it as a failure experience and a growth experience.
When a girl blocks you, she means not giving you a chance. If she didn't have to do it, then give up early. You must know that it is difficult and costly to change a person's inherent impression of you. So learn a lesson and learn to respect girls.
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