Girls who have just added are generally not familiar with each other. At this time, if the topic of your chat is not interesting enough, or if you say something that offends girls, the girl can add you or delete you. So whether the question of how to chat with the girl you just added is important depends on whether you can continue to develop with the girl.
1. The opening of the chat drives the atmosphere
When the girl you just added is not familiar with it, the chat is mainly relaxed, so it is best to open the chat to create an atmosphere without falling into an embarrassing situation. :
1. Hearing and hearing opening
Generally speaking, "hearing and hearing" can arouse a girl's interest, and she will think that you have some information that she doesn't know. For example:
Boy: "I heard..."
Girl: "?"
Boy: "I heard you wanted to treat me to dinner ~”
2. Emoticon opening
Emoticon packs are a life-saving tool to save our male friends. It would be great to find an expression that suits your style as an opening
< p> It is recommended that you download the [Doutu] app, which is very convenient to use. You can also pay attention to collecting related emoticons. Note: Don’t be overly cute, cute, flirtatious, or have large-scale expressions. This is not conducive to establishing a favorable image for yourself.3. Curious opening
This will create expectations for the girl, arouse the curiosity of the other party, and make the girl feel A feeling of wanting to know what you are going to say next can effectively increase the response rate
For example:
“You look familiar, have you seen me somewhere? "It turned out to be you! ..." (Describe the reason)
"I found a characteristic of you"
Note: High returns High risk, be prepared in advance to create curiosity, otherwise the girl will have a bad impression of you when she finds out that you are being mysterious
4. Question opening
There are various situations in our lives every day Various hot topics, such as news, new crown, obvious... It is OK to choose one of them as an opening statement to discuss with girls
For example:
" If you were the responsible person of the State Administration of Radio, Film and Television and asked you to choose between Zhang Yishan's "The Deer and the Cauldron" and "The New White Snake", who would you miss?"
Note: Try to avoid social news, current affairs and politics, Girls are more likely to not be interested in topics such as technological inventions.
5. Fugue opening
It is to give the other party a limited personality, quality, and behavioral characteristics
For example:
“Say Really, you are willing to take care of others and be considerate of others. This is such a good character. Many girls are joining you now.You don’t like to talk after becoming friends, I don’t think you are such a girl.”
Note: Grasp the scope of the fugue. If the scope is too large, it will be difficult to start the topic
6. Praise opening
No one dislikes being praised. As long as the praise is sincere and comes from the heart, such praise can Let girls have a good impression of you, which will help send friendly signals to you
For example:
Has anyone ever said that you look a bit like Yang Mi, Liu Shishi... .Especially when you laugh
Note: Praise ≠ kneel down and lick. Everyone knows what they are like, and too much is worse
7. Information-related opening
Use your previous brief knowledge of the girl as a clue to start the topic
For example:
"Your name is the same as one of my friends" (this way you can have a simple chat Your friend)
"You should only be 22 years old" (the girl's age is appropriate to say young)
Note: It must be based on the prepared information, otherwise it will be more embarrassing< /p>
2. Continuing the topic with humor
In fact, we all like humorous chat methods in life, which can make both parties chatting relaxed and happy. This should be used when chatting with the girl who just added The same applies. For example:
"I really want to tell you that your eyes are very similar to Yang Mi's, very spiritual... (pause for 2 seconds) but I really can't say it."
As a person of the opposite sex who is used to being praised by others, when you say "your eyes are very spiritual", her brain will react immediately and classify you as an ordinary boy who flatters you. But when you say When you say "I really can't say it", it means that the girl has overturned the previous image of you by herself, which will make her happy in vain and cause the girl's mood swings. This is a more successful humor.
Of course, humorous chatting methods are strengthened by mastering the correct methods and methods. At the same time, apart from your character, when girls choose a man, What matters more is whether you are comfortable with you and whether you are happy or not. If you can handle chatting with the girl you just added through communication, then the girl's favorability with you will continue to increase, and the girl will take the initiative to find you. Your day is not far away.
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