In fact, there is a big difference between online dating and face-to-face chatting. Sometimes you chat very well online, but when you meet online, you may fall into an awkward situation of silence or awkward chatting, just because you are in When meeting, I didn’t choose the right topic to talk about, or I didn’t know what topic to talk about at all. Let’s talk about what is not awkward to talk about when meeting a girl online?
1. Maintain a relaxed chatting atmosphere
In fact, what you talk about when you meet online is not that important. Maintaining a relaxed chatting atmosphere is the most important. Generally, when you meet a girl you are dating online, you first say hello, and then you compliment her and praise her. Of course, you must praise her realistically, otherwise you will appear too fake. After praising her, you can then talk about the happier things you have encountered recently. For example, say hey. Let me tell you. If something particularly happy happens to me recently, she will definitely agree with you. Remember, when you meet for the first time, never say anything too official. Anyway, just make sure the whole atmosphere is relaxed and pleasant.
2. Talk about common topics
Since you are dating online, you will definitely talk about many topics. , in the same way, you can still chat after meeting, but it used to be through the Internet, but now it is face to face. In fact, no matter what you talk about when you meet online, it will be awkward. After all, you are strangers you have never met before (you only chat but never meet), so it mainly depends on the boys to take the initiative, be bolder, more careful, and thick-skinned, and they can do anything. Chat, as long as you have fun chatting with girls you are dating online, you won’t be embarrassed if you don’t talk, which is better than simply looking for topics all the time.
3. Pay attention to topic extension
In fact, it is easy to run out of things to talk about any topic in online dating. So the most important thing is to learn topic extension. Opening up a conversation isn't just a compliment, or inviting someone to eat extends from ordering to ordering. Students just talk about their studies, complain, etc. Don't put too much pressure on yourself. Office workers can definitely discuss skin care products, clothes, etc. with girls. You can also start by chatting based on the hobbies of girls you are dating online, such as libraries, or Haidilao for foodies. If you find out about these, you won't run out of things to talk about.
Four. Find topics around the environment
Although you have been chatting online before, it may seem illusory after all. , many things need to be understood through talking and chatting. But now you have met, and the person you could only see through the Internet is now standing in front of you alive. You can express your current mood, express your incredible, or find topics around the environment. If this environment is not convenient for chatting, you can also change the scene and start chatting again. You don’t have to worry about the awkwardness of meeting and chatting online.
In fact, you don’t have to worry about what to talk about when you meet a girl online. The most important thing is to behave naturally when you meet a girl online! As long as the other person doesn't feel nervous and the two of you slowly relax, the atmosphere will be much better and your brain will be much easier to use.
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