Many boys will take the initiative to chat with a girl when they like her. Even if the girl has shown a perfunctory way of chatting, he still can't tell it at all. He still chats with the girl enthusiastically as usual, making the girl more and more tired of him. Let me share with you the way a girl talks perfunctorily with you. Do you see how perfunctory she is towards you?
1. Unbalanced chat
Many boys may not know what unbalanced chat is. To put it simply, you send a lot of text or language to a girl, and the girl only replies briefly to you. One sentence or no reply at all; you frequently send messages to girls, but she always takes a long time to reply to you, or always replies after several days or does not reply at all; no matter what type of topic you tell a girl, she seems Not interested in this...
The above are the symptoms of unbalanced chatting with girls. The reason why a girl treats you like this is simply because she doesn't like you, so she doesn't consider your mood at all.
2. Not taking the initiative to understand your situation
If a girl is interested in you, then she will Will pay attention to information about you during the chat. On the other hand, if a girl never takes the initiative to ask for information about you while chatting with you, she may not pay attention to some of the information you proactively tell her, and she may not remember it even if you tell her several times. This means that she is chatting with you. It was with a perfunctory attitude.
So if you are chatting with a girl and she always ignores your situation, you can be sure that she is just perfunctory in chatting with you and she is not interested in you at all.
3. Always using busyness and lack of time as an excuse
Whether some girls are really busy or pretending to be busy, you feel like she is not free if you talk to her anytime. Or some VNs seem to be fine with you, but when you want to invite her out on a date on the weekend, she always shirks you with excuses such as busy, inappropriate, or no time. You know, if a girl really likes you and faces your invitation, she may take time out to date you even if she asks for leave (maybe a bit exaggerated). Maybe after she rejected you, she actually stayed at home eating, watching TV dramas, and shopping on Taobao. This is actually a sign of girls chatting away from you.
4. Change the topic every time you talk about feelings
If a boy likes a girl, he will find a way Get closer to girls during the chat, create an ambiguous atmosphere, etc. But if a girl talks to you in a perfunctory manner, then she will change the topic when a boy talks to her about emotional topics and get away with it, but she is unwilling to go further with you and will not share her emotional experience with you. Let’s talk to you about the weather, practical matters and other lousy topics. She kept silent about other sensitive topics.
5. Enjoy your kindness to her
There are always some girls who are very vain. They rely on their slight beauty to enjoy the kindness of their suitors and have a great time chatting with you; on the other hand, they keep pretending to be stupid about the kindness of boys. For example, she never refuses you when you give her red envelopes or invite you to dinner, but when you confess your love to her, she keeps a distance from you and treats you aloof.
If a girl often enjoys your kindness to her, but cannot bear to refuse your kindness to her, in fact she has I have classified you as a spare tire. I hope everyone will recognize the true face of girls as soon as possible to prevent themselves from getting deeper and unable to extricate themselves.
The above is the "girl's perfunctory way of chatting with you". I hope boys can discover girls' attitude towards you as soon as possible and don't do it in vain.
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