Some careless girls will inevitably have some bumps and bruises in normal times. So what is the best way to respond when a girl hurts her leg and tells you that her leg hurts?
First of all, you need to know that if a girl takes the initiative to tell you that her legs hurt, it means that the girl is more dependent on you and hopes to get your comfort and care. Therefore, we can adjust the relationship according to the stage of the relationship with the girl. , just make corresponding comfort.
1. We are just ordinary friends with girls
When we are only ordinary friends with girls, girls will treat you Saying that your legs hurt shows that she still trusts you, so we can take this opportunity to get closer to the girl and upgrade the relationship appropriately.
If you are far away from the girl and cannot appear by her side quickly, then the first thing to do is to appease the girl's emotions, tell her not to be anxious, and then help the girl analyze the pain in her legs. The reason is: I was tired from walking too much yesterday, I accidentally bumped into it, or my body is deficient in calcium and my legs hurt due to cramps after catching a cold. I will make a judgment based on the girl's answer.
After we understand the reasons for girls’ leg pain, we need to find solutions. Of course, the solution must be to take care of the girl's emotions first and then talk about the solution.
Because girls need your comfort and care more than solutions, so no matter how much you say, you can help girls solve their problems. There are no other ways to make him happy and help her divert her attention from thinking about the pain in her legs.
If a girl only has slight leg pain and will be fine after taking a rest, she can create an atmosphere of empathy, put herself into the hypothetical situation, create empathy, and in the process also You can magnify your pain and make girls feel that the pain in their legs is a trivial matter, thus allowing girls to put down their psychological burden.
For example:
Last time I also had leg cramps because I caught a cold, and it was on both feet. It was so difficult.
I remember getting up to go to the bathroom at night. , I accidentally touched my leg without turning on the light. I didn’t take it seriously. When I woke up tomorrow, my leg was purple and in great pain
2. We have a close relationship with a girl
When we have a close relationship with a girl, when we comfort her, it is different from the comfort between ordinary friends, because when a girl says her leg hurts, there is a test Inside, at this time girls will judge whether you are a person worth dating through your comfort.
If you just comfort the other person, it will make the girl feel that you don’t care about her enough, and too much care and concern will make her feel bored and even just tell the girl something.The method of solving leg pain will also make girls think that you have low emotional intelligence and ignore her feelings.
So you can try to provide her with some solutions, such as:
When your legs hurt, if you feel that they are sprained, you can apply some safflower oil
If the pain is severe, a spray of Yunnan Baiyao is very effective
If the girl’s leg pain is more serious, then let her see a doctor.
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