I don’t know if you have ever had such an experience. You are obviously in good condition, but when you chat with a girl, you always feel that the girl becomes cold after less than a few words. In fact, this is all because there is a problem with the way you chat. Today I’m going to share with you guys some of the ways that girls dislike chatting with boys.
1. Talk at length about the fields you are familiar with
It turns a deaf ear.
The chat seems to have turned into a personal talk show, making the girls feel like they are just watching a performance. It would be fine to say that the talk show is humorous, but in reality, it often just pulls the crotch.
A long speech about a field you are familiar with may turn into showing off your knowledge to her after a girl interprets it, which is very daddy-like.
But this is not about high-quality human men courting high-quality human women. There is no need to overly demonstrate our knowledge, nor do we need to prove that we are professional enough.
2. Inquiring too much into a girl’s privacy
Chatting with a girl and wanting to know her situation urgently, you can I understand, but there's really no need to be in such a hurry. Excessively inquiring into a girl's privacy will only make the girl feel disgusted.
If you want to eat an apple, you have to peel it first, but if you want to fall in love, you don’t have to talk about it first. This kind of love also requires a step-by-step approach, step by step, with a little surprise in the middle. Maybe this girl will fall in love with you. Catching eyes.
Many times, what a girl dislikes is not that you pry out her information, but what she dislikes is that you want to know all her information so quickly.
3. Take on the role of boyfriend in advance
Before the girl agrees to be your girlfriend, act on your own He advocates putting himself into the role of someone else's boyfriend. Although there is nothing wrong with caring about girls, you still have to consider the situation.
I just saw this message from a girl who wanted to go out for some fun. I immediately showed her all kinds of care and consideration, and just said, "It's better not to go out so late."
I just heard that girls have to stay up late, and my inner desire for protection was instantly full, so I said back to me, "Staying up late is not good for your health, so just go to bed quickly."
There was no reply to the message I sent, and what followed was a series of life-threatening calls, "Why don't you reply to my message?"
Isn’t this all about caring about girls? Is this wrong? It’s not wrong, is this appropriate? Not to mention, it’s really inappropriate.
This inappropriate concern will only make girls disgusted.
4. He and the girlThe student started to speak greasyly before he was familiar with her
I had just started to interact with the girl, and I was still unknown about the girl’s character, so I started with a greasy combination of punches.
“The eyes don’t lie”
“Are you restraining your love for me?”
“Open the door and let me break into your heart ".
A man will shed tears after seeing this, and a woman’s heart will tremble after seeing it. Anyone who sees it may have to spend a big bucket of detergent to clean up this damn greasy feeling that has nowhere to go. After a year Looking back half a year ago, I may still be frightened.
Try not to step on the above four minefields when chatting with girls, otherwise the girl will most likely block you.
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