There are always boys who are troubled by the fact that they cannot chase the girl they like, but they never think of looking for problems in themselves to improve themselves. The result may be that they keep chasing and failing, and in the end they are so beaten that they no longer have the courage to pursue it. Chasing girls. Let me share with you what books are suitable to read when chasing girls? Improve yourself first before chasing girls, and you will get unexpected results.
1. Singles (Capturing Love)
"Since ancient times, deep love cannot be retained, only routines can win people's hearts." This book is about routines.
This book "How to Make the One You Love Fall in Love with You" is no longer as soulful as the previous one. This book talks about a series of methodologies, some practical methods, and The book that best fits the topic of this question. If you want to read only one book in this list, this one is the first choice.
Scumbag and Green Tea take advantage of their appearance to gain experience from numerous battles. We don’t understand those routines. Only those who are brave and sincere are often hurt in love. After reading this book, you can not only pursue the person you like, but also go against the routine to protect yourself from being hurt.
With deep affection and a little trick, love will come naturally.
Of course, sincerity is the key when it comes to routines. Don’t worry, the scumbag Green Tea will not end well.
Book introduction:
Where should you go to find your sweetheart? How to make someone's heart flutter on the first date? When should you take the initiative? The book describes in detail the differences in emotional needs and expressions between men and women, explores the reasons and process of them falling in love, and guides us through various verbal and non-verbal methods and techniques to win the favor of the person we love and reap the rewards. The ideal love in my mind.
2. Getting out of singles (understanding the two genders)
We should have known for a long time that men and women have different ways of thinking. Men and women are two completely opposite species. Don’t No matter if you complain that she doesn't understand you, love her in a way that she can accept. This book was also a best-seller at the time. The content in it has certain truth and representativeness, and some of it has been dissed. We can just take the essence and discard the dross according to our own situation.
Book introduction:
"Men are from Mars, Women are from Venus" allows men to understand women and let them Women's understanding of men is recognized as the only "bible" for leading to a harmonious love relationship and maintaining a happy marriage!
Excerpts of golden quotes:
When a man hears a woman talk about her dissatisfaction, he will spontaneously help her with advice. In fact, women just want to express their inner depression or resolve their dissatisfaction, but men misunderstand that women need help. In the eyes of men, helping women make plansPlanning is an expression of a man's love. But the woman seems to refuse to accept his kindness, and he can't do anything to help. This makes the man full of frustration and a sense of failure.
3. Love Chapter (Managing Love)
Love is a thing that can be beautiful but also harmful. After all, how can two people be together without bumping into each other, but never Let the friction of life destroy our feelings. Love needs management like a career. No one is born to fall in love. In a love, we support each other and grow, which is the best state.
Book introduction:
Love is the most wonderful experience among human emotions. The author combines psychological Learn the research theories and results of multiple branches, and use interesting discussions to summarize the behavioral characteristics and rules of people in aspects such as interaction and communication, love and commitment, marriage and sex, jealousy and betrayal, etc. This book is rich in content and beautiful in language; it emphasizes both professionalism and readability. As long as you want to have a satisfying intimate relationship, you can get inspiration from the book "Intimacy: A Bridge to the Soul".
Excerpts of golden sentences:
"I can't believe my partner's love, I think he will hurt me sooner or later." So what you actually mean is that you can't trust yourself. What you call trust in your partner is actually an expectation - you hope that the other person's behavior will not threaten you or cause you to relapse into old injuries. The truth is, you don't believe in your ability to deal with pain or love yourself.
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